22 June 2009

Now the story

Yesterday evening went to my parents place, and finally i get to know the whole story..


Anyway since we were there.. i brought the kids jalan2 the apartment area.. nak jumpa their friends.. and we lalu lah kat this kedai (like mini kedai runcit at the club house). and the owner (our neighbor jugak) tegur la the kids.. rindu kan.. lama tak jumpa budak2 comel ni.. and the lady said "ha... hari tu came here.. crying... "


i was like.. "haa.. she cam here ke auntie? alone ke? aiyooo. the maid was sleeping la auntie!"


and then she story la.... and few more story added by my neighbors (and some added by my instinct).. something like this..


balqis panggil kak ayu.. few times, no answer.. so naturally she cried... then jiran sebelah ( i think) nampak dia nangis..and also the guard saw her.. so the neighbor gave her money, the guard brought her to the kedai, telling the auntie that no one is at home, and my poor baby is all alone.


then the auntie told the guard.. maid ada kat dalam.. must be sleeping or something, and asked the guard to knock the door sampai the maid bukak. but before that, the untie let balqis buy any drink that she wants (using the money that my neighbor kasik).


so there...


i am so grateful to have such lovely neighbors..


NASIB BAIK ada jiran baik, auntie kedai yg baik and guard yg baik.


cuba korang imagine klu org yg jahat cemaner? nauzubillah.. just the thought pun aku dah rasa nak pitam...


i get frustrated somehow coz some people did not take this issue seriously.. boleh gelak2 jer bila aku cerita. fine.. aku tak mo bukak dah citer ni...


we have our own precautions now.


mmg susah bila harap org jaga anak kita. tak kira la siapa pun org tu.

then this morning i saw in astro awani (ke oasis) dok debate pasal giving 1 day off to the maids. then they discussed about nowadays makin hari makin ramai female professionals resign sebab nak duduk rumah jaga anak. and they also said that this is truely a lost to the country..

IS IT?

is it really a lost bila org pompuan resign and jadik housewife?

or is it the other way around?

i believe in getting back to basic lah senang citer. Islam, dah bagi guideline, dah allocate responsibility to us. Husband / Father - kuar cari rezeki. Wife / Mother, dirumah jaga anak and rumahtangga. Mmg Islam tak melarang pompuan kuar bekerja jika diizinkan suami utk meringankan beban rumahtangga, tapi jgn lah sampai the main responsibility tu jadik dekat pompuan and terabai anak2 & rumahtangga plak kan?

That's why, aku rasa, its not merugikan country bila pompuan resign and jaga anak. In fact, its a long term investment to the country. I dont think it is such an easy job to didik anak2. I have seen few families yang mana bila mak diorang mmg duduk rumah (either fully housewife or work from home), anak2 mmg akan terdidik dgn elok.

Ini, bila kita depend kat external party nak jaga anak2, mula lah mcm2 cerita, and we have no one to blame except diri kita sendiri.. :(

7 comments:

Cik Puan Kamil said...

UUhh... bengangnya aku... nasib baik pak guard yg memg betul guard, kalau hawau macamana ?

30 minutes sorang2 depan rumah... apa kes tidur pagi2 ?

Kat Mesia ni susah lah Konot... Kat UK banyak mothers yang berhenti kerja bila ada baby and after 10 years nak masuk work force balik senang je. Kat Mesia susah... no current experience lah, too long out of the system lah..

Kat UK, to ease the mothers back into the workforce, they start by working 1 day a week. 1 day !!! Kat sini toksah harap lah... Asian punya mentaliti.. Sebab mothers susah nak berhenti kerja...

Buat kempen sayangilah keluarga tapi tak nak revamp employment laws.. Marah ni..

Linda Ahmad said...

I second Myra Abdul Mutalib..

Sometimes aku wonder, with current ICT technologies, susah sangat ker employers nak bagi mothers to work from home? Kalo dtg keja pun, can we guarantee we'll utilize 8 dedicated hours to work (oopss...terbocor rahsia tengah surf the net ni..)

kalo ada option working from home, dah lama aku ambik...

liadevega said...

Hang punya post kali ni macam menggambarkan sesuatu ja...hehe. Whatever your decision I second you... hang pun tau aku macam hang...kalau boleh dok umah all the time..heaven!

JueOny said...

Bagi aku kan konot...menjadi housewife actually akan menguntungkan negara next 10 - 20 yrs form now coz akhlak penduduk malaysia akan improve kerana kini social problem terlalu tinggi kerana anak2 dibiarkan atau diletakkan tanggungjawab mendidik kpd pihak ke3 which is bad...Pemimpin have to think jauh n focus kpd membina rakyat yg sihat minda bukan yg buruk akhlak...ibu yg bekerja dan terpaksa berhenti kerja utk mendidik anak2 perlu diberi elaun sara hidup dan to ensure utk terima mereka kembali bekerja next at least 5/10yrs....baru negara gemilang dan bertatasusila...

Konot said...

korang - aku rasa payah klu semua female dok rumah pasai dah ramai sgt pompuan kat mesia ni..hehehe..
ntahla i think my work nature ni sendiri sebenarnya boleh jer work from home.. tapi biasala.. nature banking industry.. semua kena ada depan mata boss.. (sempat lagi ngadap blog hehhe).. aku pun tatau la bila aku bleh resign ni.. ad lia.. no lah i am not menggambarkan anything.. except my cita2 yg ntah bila nak kesampaian ni..

aishah said...

Aku nak dok rumah.... amin..

Konot said...

aishah - aku pon!

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