Yesterday evening went to my parents place, and finally i get to know the whole story..
Anyway since we were there.. i brought the kids jalan2 the apartment area.. nak jumpa their friends.. and we lalu lah kat this kedai (like mini kedai runcit at the club house). and the owner (our neighbor jugak) tegur la the kids.. rindu kan.. lama tak jumpa budak2 comel ni.. and the lady said "ha... hari tu came here.. crying... "
i was like.. "haa.. she cam here ke auntie? alone ke? aiyooo. the maid was sleeping la auntie!"
and then she story la.... and few more story added by my neighbors (and some added by my instinct).. something like this..
balqis panggil kak ayu.. few times, no answer.. so naturally she cried... then jiran sebelah ( i think) nampak dia nangis..and also the guard saw her.. so the neighbor gave her money, the guard brought her to the kedai, telling the auntie that no one is at home, and my poor baby is all alone.
then the auntie told the guard.. maid ada kat dalam.. must be sleeping or something, and asked the guard to knock the door sampai the maid bukak. but before that, the untie let balqis buy any drink that she wants (using the money that my neighbor kasik).
i am so grateful to have such lovely neighbors..
NASIB BAIK ada jiran baik, auntie kedai yg baik and guard yg baik.
cuba korang imagine klu org yg jahat cemaner? nauzubillah.. just the thought pun aku dah rasa nak pitam...
i get frustrated somehow coz some people did not take this issue seriously.. boleh gelak2 jer bila aku cerita. fine.. aku tak mo bukak dah citer ni...
we have our own precautions now.
mmg susah bila harap org jaga anak kita. tak kira la siapa pun org tu.
then this morning i saw in astro awani (ke oasis) dok debate pasal giving 1 day off to the maids. then they discussed about nowadays makin hari makin ramai female professionals resign sebab nak duduk rumah jaga anak. and they also said that this is truely a lost to the country..
is it really a lost bila org pompuan resign and jadik housewife?
or is it the other way around?
i believe in getting back to basic lah senang citer. Islam, dah bagi guideline, dah allocate responsibility to us. Husband / Father - kuar cari rezeki. Wife / Mother, dirumah jaga anak and rumahtangga. Mmg Islam tak melarang pompuan kuar bekerja jika diizinkan suami utk meringankan beban rumahtangga, tapi jgn lah sampai the main responsibility tu jadik dekat pompuan and terabai anak2 & rumahtangga plak kan?
That's why, aku rasa, its not merugikan country bila pompuan resign and jaga anak. In fact, its a long term investment to the country. I dont think it is such an easy job to didik anak2. I have seen few families yang mana bila mak diorang mmg duduk rumah (either fully housewife or work from home), anak2 mmg akan terdidik dgn elok.
Ini, bila kita depend kat external party nak jaga anak2, mula lah mcm2 cerita, and we have no one to blame except diri kita sendiri.. :(