17 February 2009

How Nice

Semlm bwk Balqis pi her regular paed kat Naluri, and we met this girl, our classmate masa kat UIA dulu...

Borak punya borak.. and I asked her mana dia keje skang.. and she answered
"I'm not working currently.. I'm a housewife"

And spontaneously aku cakap "owhh,, HOW NICE!!"

Bukan perli... i really meant it!

And she said "oh nooo... not so nice!"

hmmmmm....

Pada sapa yg tak tau... I ALWAYS hve the urge nak berenti keje and jadik housewife... well, mebbe not 100% HW, but WAHM (work at home mothers). do something from home.. online business ke, tuition ke.. apa2 jer la as long as I can take care of my kids myself.

Ntah bila hajat aku nak kesampaian.. aku pun tatau...

But I constantly get negative comments pasal being a housewife, especially from the housewives themselves..

boring, tak berkembang etc... itu la yg aku selalu dgr..

or mebbe so far i enjoyed my time at home with the kids pasal aku ada maid...

tapi tak jugak.. on weekends normally kitorang balik subang without the maid. so friday nite - ahad ptg tu aku mmg maidless, i do ALMOST all the chores by myself, with the 2 ketul budak comel along..

and alhamdulillah so far tak de komplen la.. i enjoyed our weekend.

Hari ni aku EL. Balqis demam.

Part of me rasa cam sonok sgt tak yah pi keje.. leh dok umah jaga anak2. Sofeya pun merengek2 tak mo dok dgn maid bila nampak aku...hehehhee... she has come to a stage yg dia ada preference.. yg bila nampak aku balik keje jer.. terus terkam!! i tell u.. the feeling is PRICELESS!

Sambil dok blog ni aku dok ajar Balqis buat homework.. u see... bila mak bapak ada time.. tak yah susah2 hantar anak extra class, tuition, itu ini..

kdg2 aku rasa just nak ambik cuti and duduk rumah..

kdg2 aku rasa tak sabar maid aku nak cukup2 tahun, gi la balik bandung cuti kejap.. aku nak ambik cuti nak dok rumah and uruskan anak2 and rumahtangga sendiri...

so korang rasa ok ke idok jadik housewife ni eh?

14 comments:

liadevega said...

ada maid, w'pun kau uruskan anak2 yrself, dgn hanya ada spouse or worse spouse not around is very very different i tell u.

masa nenek aku duduk dgn aku sampai muhammad umur 10 bulan, i still can mandi dan solat dgn aman. now, nak b*r*k pun angkut dia masuk bilik air sekali ok? get what i mean? but aku sokong kalau kau nak jadi housewife, just... keep the maid around please!

Cik Puan Kamil said...

Ini perkara biasa. People always want what they can't have. My sister-in-law yg tak keje gatal nak keje and aku yg keje gatal nak jadi housewife. They often say the same thing, duduk rumah boring and aku akan kata tapi aku nak belek anak !!

Cakap Kamalia tu betul sebabnya aku tidak dibenarkan kunci pintu bilik air... tak kira umar, elsa atau bapaknya sekali... sebab dah biasa buat keje dalam toilet bawak anak sekali... he he..

Konot said...

korang, dulu dgn balqis aku pernah jugak bawak dia masuk bilik air..muahahha.. time tu maid cuti balik indon... keskeskes... ingat aku sorang jer pernah buat gitu.. rupanya ini fenomena normal!

tapi true lah.. on weekends.. time aku nak mandi, makan.. kena tunggu sofeya tidoq... klu tak mmg mandi/makan edisi express la aku...

express = less than 2 mins muehehhe

Ayu said...

hmm.. sarah finally tido.. baru leh bukak internet n check email and check blog ..but wait..if i do this, nanti tak sempat lak masak, dah nak almost lunch time ni..and "taufiq!!!! berenti buat sepah kat luar!! mama baru jer kemas..." hmm...kemas balik.. alamak ..kain tak bersidai lagi kat luar ...jap..jap.. satgi buat.. ape ye nak komen kat blog konot ni...best komen pasal topik nih... *thinking sambil garu2 muka yang dah 3 tahun tak buat facial * ... brb..ada call.. ihsan tanya dah siap ke rephrase paragraph fr article yg dia mintak tolong semalam... sikit lagi ... oh ..baru teringat apa nak komen.. Being housewife is fun and .. err...sambung lain kali lah..sarah dah bangun :P

Ayu said...

okay sambung ... being housewife is not that bad.. the fun part is when you keep searching for the time for yourself :)

Konot said...

ayu, ye la ye la!!!!! i get your point!!!
ada sambungan lagik nieh citer ni hehehhe

Alfian_Troxion said...

hmmm. aku pon sekarang dalam proses utk memikirkan benda ya sama... yakni menjadi full time house wife.... hua hua hua!

tapi bukan aku la yg 'menjadi' itu. Aku nak 'menjadikan' bini aku la full time HW :D hehehehe. tapi macam ko kata gak Konot... Work From Home nye. Nanti senang sket aku nak kompol duit mancing sebab bini dah ada duit sendiri. HUA HUA HUA! (Gelak Syaiton Dirrojiiim). hehehe. tapi cah je tu.. kalau dia jadik HW, aku kasik la nafkah secukupnye :D

Weh... apa kata korang tubuhkan persatuan hosewife mesia dan australia dan Subang. Nanti leh kasik nasihat kat sapa2 yg nak jadiK HW... konsultansi tu! RM500 per session :D

apa aku repek ni... Ayu!( Kalau kau baca )... Ehsan pon side effect PHD dia cam ni gak ke? Jadik perepek antarabangsa?

Hmmmm....

anywayz... Konot... adakah anda sedang memasak? Lama tak chet ngan kau :'( Uwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa!!!!

I need nuerofen....

Alfian_Troxion said...

But on a more serious note (I can be serious U know)....

Aku rasa sapa2 yg nak jadik housewife kena betul2 identify kenapa dia nak jadi Hwife. Some see it as an escape route from work, when in reality, it's not what they want either. This will result in a temporary feeling of satisfaction, happiness and ecstasy. But as the months and years wade by.... regret falls into place... and the Housewife is left battered by her own guilt and gull... (gull tu apa ek? aku men tulis je :P)

But if... the woman seeking to be HW is truely genuine at heart... it can be truly rewarding.. More than what 20% of Bill Gate's fortune can buy! But this feeling of course... must have been brought by experience... Experience in experiencing the better and more rewarding life as a home maker... I truly believe, that only then... can a true HW seeker.. be a true housewife... both to herself... family... and the ummah!

Dayem... asal aku takleh serius sepenuh masa :(

I love U all!!! thank u. Thank u!

Alfian_Troxion said...

There was once a parrot...
Never did she like the wind...
The wind never swayed her cage!
WHY IS IT THAT THE WIND IS TREATED WHICH SUCH HATE!!!!

....

lepas tu ribut taufan datang...
mati parrot tu

hahahahahaha!

ok ok. dah dah. aku tak tulis dah. Sorry :D

liadevega said...

oii...boleh tak tolong update blog ni..cite le pasal tudung munawarrah hang...penat tau aku log in.

Konot said...

jawa...

panjang siot ko berhujah... hehehe... anyways.. lama giler tak chat dgn ko!

lia.. hehehe.. ye la ye la aku update... tapi bukan pasal tudung aaaa

Amy said...

Alah nak tauuu gak pasal tudung munawwarah..citer apa???

NORLIDA MOHD NOR A.K.A IDA said...

Cuba ko list kan sebab2 konkrit kenapa ko nak jadik FULL TIME Housewife? Then, adakah ko ikhlas sanggup korbankan karier & gaji yg ko dapat selama ini utk anak2 tercinta? Mana lebih penting? Anak2 OR karier? Kalo somi ko mampu tanggung ko OK apa...Lagik satu, tudung Munawarrah kalo nak pi beli masa tuh, kena fikir banyak kali laa.......

Konot said...

amy - entry pasal tudung munawarah blym ader.. ko pi click kamalia nyer blog. then ko click hubby dia punya blog.. situ byk citer munawarah hehehe

dot - i wud sacrifice my career ANYTIME beb!

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