On Monday 28 Jan, I was otw back from work when Mr Photographer sms-ed me “B fell at day care, kaki bengkak. Call me once u reach tren”.
Jantung aku mcm nak terkeluar ok. Dlm tren tgh ramai2 org tu aku tak pedulik, air mata aku kuar berjurai2.
Aku teringat citer kawan aku sorang nih, maid bawak her 3 y.o son main buai, budak tuh jatuh, tah mcm mana jatuh.tersepit, tulang peha patah and hancur. Maid did not tell her sampai la pukul 10.30 mlm, which by then the kid’s peha dah bengkak mcm org besar punya peha.
The journey from KLCC to Melati station was the longest ever, seriously.
Sampai jer I called Mr Photographer, and Balqis picked up the phone. “Ma, adik jatuh la.. kaki adik bengkak” She sounds ok.. hati aku lega sikit.
Lepas they picked me up, we went to nearby klinik. Dr said kena x ray, takut tulang patah, pasal Balqis kenot walk, each time sentuh kaki dia, sakit sgt katanya. So pergi sana sini cari tempat x ray, last2 we went to Ampang Puteri.
Panel ke tak, aku pun tatau. Tak leh nak pk ok… dah emergency kan? Kalau kampeni aku yg kedukut ni tak mo bayar pun sudah.. yg penting anak aku ok.
All the time Balqis was ok. Bleh gelak, main, but once nak masuk x ray, and the staff asked her to luruskan tapak kaki, nangis la kesakitan budak tuh, kesian.. aku plak tak bleh nak duduk dekat pasal pregnant. Sib baik ada daddy bleh teman. (Daddy ler kawan baik dia skang, asyik kena dukung jer..)
So after x ray, jumpa dr balik.. and guess what… Tulang jari kedua and ketiga on her right foot is BROKEN. PATAH. Bukan fractured, bukan terseliuh, but PATAH!
Aku mcm nak pengsan ok.
Yg buat aku lagi nak pengsan, bila dr said “kena tunggu dr pakar dtg, I dah call dia. See what he says. I’m not sure whether kena pasang SKRU or SIMEN”
Dgr jer SKRU or SIMEN, aku rasa mcm… berpinau kejap kepala. How can this be? Anak aku patah kaki? Tak pernah beb dlm sejarah keluarga aku ada org patah2 tulang nih! How Balqis going to endure the pain?
So we waited kat emergency ward tuh. Meanwhile Balqis syok dok main wheelchair.. tolak sana sini, suruh daddy dia bawak jalan kat luar.. ambik gambar pakai henfon, nyanyi2… hmmm… cam lupa plak kaki dia patah ek?
So after like 1 hour ++, specialist sampai. He said “Tulang patah, but not serious. We don’t have to simen or skru, pasal jari pertama and keempat akan act as simen to support the middle fingers. Time tidur kena tinggikan sket kaki, I will put on socks to her and give some painkiller. Within 3 weeks it should heal by itself lah”
Fuhhhh…lega ok!!!
So now, we officially have a new madam besar in the house. Tak bley jalan kan? So duduk terbaring atas katil, dgn PSP kat kiri, laptop kat kanan, TV kat depan. Nak apa2.. jerit jer panggil mommy or daddy.. Sonok nyer dia… pergi mana2 daddy akan dukung. Nak apa2 mommy akan ambik.
Skang kak ani tolong jaga dia. Dgn kakak aku sekali jadi org suruhan dia ok… sabo ye kak ani?
Hehehehe.. So, apparently she fell from the stairs. Balqis said dia main lompat2 from tangga, specifically lompat from 4 anak tangga. She cried time jatuh (obviously). But the day care staff tot mebbe tak serious, so they just sapu minyak urut and did not call me or the daddy.
Aku marah? Sikit lah… but benda dah jadi.. marah lebih2 pun tak guna. I just told them nicely next time kalau jadi gini, pls call cepat2.
So now, every morning aku pergi sekolah dia, ambik homework, ask her to do at kak ani’s house. Kalau 3 weeks tak pi sekolah, tak mo la tinggal byk sgt kan? The teachers are all shocked, camner Balqis bley patah kaki? Lompat? Pasal to them (the school teachers) Balqis is a nice girl, tak lasak sgt. Hmmm.. tu lah kan.. aku pun terkejut.
Kak ani said.. hari pertama.. seronok sakan Balqis.. jadi maam besar. Masuk hari kedua, dia dah start boring. Asyik duduk jer… sampai bontot pun naik kematu. Kak ani kesian sgt kat dia asyik terperuk dlm rumah, ptg2 bawak pi jalan makan roti canai and minum the tarik. Happy sket dia.
Tapikan… bila fikir2.. dgr kaki anak aku patah pun aku nak pengsan.. camner ek.. parents nurin felt? Parents sharlinie felt? Its wayyyyyyyyy beyond my imagination… tak leh nak pk. Aku jadi gila kot.
I can never compare to what happened to them. Aku patut bersyukur my daugher is still with me, breathing and alive healthily. Teringat dulu time Balqis kecik2, first time kena selsema, aku panic bagai nak rak. A friend told me to relax, dia kata “at least your daughter is still breathing” hmm.. tu la kan? But ye la.. we as parents takkan nak relax bila anak sakit kan?
So doa2 lah balqis cepat sembuh k?
Ni sakit ke hapa nih? Sengih manjang
16 comments:
erkss..
irfan demam & batuk pun aku dah sedey,
niekan patah kaki macam balqis or kes macam nurin, sharlinie..
pengsan...
alahai cian irfan... aku paham.. dulu balqis selsema pun aku ambik EL sampai 2 hari..hehe..bley? risau wooo anak sakit nih!
Sian dia.... But she looks like she is having so much fun....
Take care...
memang kesian.. now i suruh dia be independent a bit. nak pergi mana2 suruh dia crawl.. tak larat weih nak dukung manjang! tapi lama2 crawling lutut plak sakit.. aisehh.. sib baik ler ramai org2 suruh dlm rumah tuh nak gilir2 dukung dia!
:) parenting ...is such a lovely eprience...it is a drama without script....it is a poetry with rhymes....but it flows forward with such beauty.
happy parenting konot.
abg id
thks abg id.. sure dah mcm2 parenting punya experience dilalui kan?
Isk Balqis, muka riang ria je budak ni. She's one strong kid la Konot. Hope she get well soon. Cakap kat dia Aunty Amy pesan "Alang2 tengah sakit tu, minta Mama macam2 ok?" hihihih
Glad to see Balqis senyum sengih like that. Tak lama lagi sembuh lah tu.
semoga balqis cepat sembuh.. bleh lompat2 lagi.. :)
siannyer dia...kalau akupun mesti cuaknyer...kim salam kat big madam yek :P doa dia cepat sembuh!
Sian balqis....she's gonna be alright....jgn kata patah...anak jatuh skit pun aku leh panic...sib baik ada hubby yg strong dari segi emotions...kalu dia pun panic sama...kan dah naya.....
get well soon untuk Balqis... shian dia...
amy - amboi pandai ko ngajar budak tu eh? heheheh... btw dia mmg kuat sket la aku rasa.. takat sakit sket2 tu tak der hal la.. she will only cry if really2 in pain or most of the time nangis time ngada.. iskk. tu yg aku tak tahan tuh!
nomee - yes.. alhamdulillah dia tak sakit sgt.. after 1 week ni dah nampak progress dah..
aishah - LOMPAT?? aku mmg dah haramkan perkataan dan perbuatan melompat dlm dictionary hidup dia dah!! hehe. yea rite.. i wonder sampai bila dia nak beringat tuh!
lan - madam besar dah alhamdulillah getting better... dah start jalan sket2..
jue - ko sama la mcm aku..jatuh sket pun aku jerit gelabah bagai nak rak..padahal budak tu tak de menda pun kdg2..
ayu - time kasih aunty ayu.. bila amirah nak balik nih? nak tunggu balqis sampai sana tah bila lahhhhh..
betul ckp ko liana..camne laa parents nurin/sharlinie rase now ni..kalo aku x tau laa..na'uzubillah..mintak dijauhkan..
ko pindah mane ni?
habaq sket...
liana,
terkezutt aku bac blog kor....can imagine kalo anak2 aku patah kaki gak...tp growing up kids...kalo kita ati2 sangat pun tak boleh gak....kalo nak patah kaki, patah gak...even tersadung kaki pun boleh jadik mcm2 kan? Anyway, takpe as long MEM BALQIS tak serius sangat....alhamdulillah......so moga2 cepat recover kay.....
linda - pindah blog ler.. iskkk.. blur btul lah ko nih..:)
dot - betul tu.. semlm baru dia cakap kat aku.. "nak naik tangga bleh?" ikut kati.. jangan harap jer.. but sampai bila kan?
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