25 January 2006

Forgive and forget

Sorry people about the previous post.
I just chit chat with the wife today, apparently she is so damn angry, she said she will never forgive and forget..bla bla bla..
Like me dulu la...:)
But i think the best thing is to forgive. You may not forget, who can? Dah kena pukul, itu ini, ingat senang ker nak lupa.. but you can always forgive. Sedangkan Nabi ampunkan umat...ye dak?
From my experience, it will definitely take time and effort to forgive someone. Sometimes we said we already forgive...but how do we know we have sincerely forgive?
To me, when there is no more anger, no more hatred, no more dendam and u no more longer wish bad things happen to the person, then I think you have sincerely forgiven him/her.
The best way to move on, is to forgive and let the past be history.
Things happen for a reason. Tuhan Maha Adil. Do not pray for something bad to happen to people. Always pray for the best for everyone.
Like my fren always said, "Everyone has their own storyline."
So frens, cheer up.. jgn sedih2...jgn marah2. tak elok untuk kesihatan.

2 comments:

Abu SH said...

setoojoo...never doa yang tak baik utk org lain, mcm mana marah pun kita kat org tu..
coz, we don't know what mistakes we have done to others, those yang kita tak sedar pun kita buat salah.

PrincessRen said...

i do agree with u konot. maybe it's ez to forgive but to forget? it really take times. confession. i pernah pray for MU kalah biller main dgn liverpool hari tuh. i hope that is not a bad thing. hehe...

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