Tegur menegur amalan mulia.

Recently I read this particular blog. And the entry is very very disturbing. Well at least it is disturbing me and my thoughts. For sensitivity and world peace purposes, I will leave the details behind.

What I am trying to say is that I have this STRONG URGE to tegur this person. Tell this person that what he/she is thinking is not right, absolutely not right! You may say that.. hey.. it’s a free country and people can express their opinion. Well, okay.. if it is an OPINION.. then I can just ignore. I do that most of the time. But when it concerns FACT, especially issue2 yg sensitive, I feel the obligation to tegur.

Get what I mean?

So question here is why did I tegur?

Becoz.. I have the thinking, or used to think that I myself pun not perfect, so I don’t qualify to tegur people. Dunno its by experience or not, but I remember dulu2 if I tegur orang not to do camni camni camni, the person would backfire me again saying elehh ko pun camtu camtu camtu…

So end up I will keep quiet. Org punya pasal lah.. don’t care lah about people.

But lately I think and think and think, if like this one.. then nobody will tegur anybody. Coz only Nabi Muhammad s.a.w jer yg makhsum (correct me if I wrongly used this term) which means tak de buat dosa. And I also think, that if people tegur u and u backfire balik, it is just plain childish. Another reason why I didn’t usually tegur people is becoz nak jaga hati org which I know mmg tak patut, and I have to work on this.

Balqis is the only one yg aku mmg tegur if she did anything wrong. Tu pun tgk muka seposen dia, aku jadik cair balik.. iskkkk!!

So shud I tegur or not eh?

Well anyway…on the other hand, it also makes me realize that whatever u write may sometimes affect people. I used to be a person who say/write whatever that crosses my mind there and then. Never bother to double, triple check my writing or think before I say anything.

A friend thought me otherwise. While it is good to tell people what u think, it is better if u have filter in your mind before u let your thoughts to be known. Coz sometimes people might interpret what we think differently. Maka jadilah miscommunication....

So should I tegur or not eh? Aiyahhhhhh!!