Assalamualaikum,
Kalau ada terbaca Part 1, mesti ada yg kata aku ni byk nau komplen pasal Sofeya.
Bukan komplen. Sigh. I just feel bad about myself. Sebab as much as aku tak tahan sabar dgn dia, it frustrates me more bila aku tgk dia pun actually feels the same about me.
"Ya Allah Ya Tuhanku!!! nape mama ni selalu tak nak dengar adik cakap? Nape hari2 kena marah adik???"
Sian pulak aku dengar mcm tu :(
Well anyway, ni nak cerita about the things she did that made me really proud
Earlier last week, out of the blue, dia LUDAH aku. Yes, ludah. RIGHT AT MY FACE.
Terkejut aku cam beruk.
Aku mcm tak tau nak react mcm mana sbb bukan tgh gaduh or marah. Plak tuh dia bantai gelak sbb to her its so funny.
Funny wak lu. Mama tgh menahan sabar nak marah je nieh.
Aku tanya elok2. Apesal ludah. Siapa ajar ni? Do you know its wrong to do that. Berdosa tahu. Allah marah. Masuk neraka nanti.
Aku cakap elok2. Made sure dia paham. Nak marah and punish lebih2 mcm kesian la plak sbb she didnt know it was wrong.
Katanya, kawan sekolah dia, nama D, yang buat. So dia ikut je la.
Fine. Aku kata, kalau D buat, lain kali bagitau D, its wrong.
Later that week, masa balik sekolah, aku nampak si D ni balik jugak. Normally, both of them mesti sibuk babai each other. Tapi not that day.
"Nape tak babai D?"
"D tak nak kawan saya"
"Nape gado?"
"Sebab dia buat mcm ni (ludah) pas tu saya cakap la tak boleh buat mcm tu nanti Allah marah pas tu dia marah saya"
Wah. I'm impressed. She listens! Dia paham! And best part is, dia berani tegur kawan dia.
Told her, what she did was right. That I'm proud of her.
Kids, apparently, memang cepat ingat and belajar apa yg kita ajar. Sebab tu la kan, kita ni as parents kena cakap yg elok2 jek.
nama kau bedah"
Terkejut aku cam beruk.
Aku mcm tak tau nak react mcm mana sbb bukan tgh gaduh or marah. Plak tuh dia bantai gelak sbb to her its so funny.
Funny wak lu. Mama tgh menahan sabar nak marah je nieh.
Aku tanya elok2. Apesal ludah. Siapa ajar ni? Do you know its wrong to do that. Berdosa tahu. Allah marah. Masuk neraka nanti.
Aku cakap elok2. Made sure dia paham. Nak marah and punish lebih2 mcm kesian la plak sbb she didnt know it was wrong.
Katanya, kawan sekolah dia, nama D, yang buat. So dia ikut je la.
Fine. Aku kata, kalau D buat, lain kali bagitau D, its wrong.
Later that week, masa balik sekolah, aku nampak si D ni balik jugak. Normally, both of them mesti sibuk babai each other. Tapi not that day.
"Nape tak babai D?"
"D tak nak kawan saya"
"Nape gado?"
"Sebab dia buat mcm ni (ludah) pas tu saya cakap la tak boleh buat mcm tu nanti Allah marah pas tu dia marah saya"
Wah. I'm impressed. She listens! Dia paham! And best part is, dia berani tegur kawan dia.
Told her, what she did was right. That I'm proud of her.
Kids, apparently, memang cepat ingat and belajar apa yg kita ajar. Sebab tu la kan, kita ni as parents kena cakap yg elok2 jek.
As Salam.
ReplyDeleteTu tandanya Allah nak jauhkan mana2 -ve influence from yr life, including yr dotter :)
keladak hidup
selalu kita doa-jauhkan dari mala petaka..kena pesan kat anak2, kl kawan tak nak kawan ngan kita it's ok.. Allah masih ada. Org baik hya utk orh baik,kan...
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yup betul tu. i mmg nak train diorang supaya jgn jadi hamba pada kawan2. jgn sampai sanggup buat apa saja sbb nak please hati kawan2.
ReplyDeleteMoments like these that make our life worthwhile. Rasa berbaloi all the fighting, the tears, everything.
ReplyDeletebetul. hilang rasa penat stress and marah selama ni!
ReplyDeletebagusnye..ok, saya kena take note semua bende ni.. :)
ReplyDeleteheheh.. cepat salin nota ye :)
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